I returned home from Palm Springs last Friday, the 24th. A lot happened in the two weeks that I spent with Mom and Dad. Mom's sudden hospitalization and our ongoing concern that they not live alone much longer, caused us to get serious about addressing their increasing need for care.
Jim, Barb, and I have been in discusssion about this for some time and proposed a plan to Mom and Dad that they have both embraced with amazing openness and peace!! The plan is that they will move to the Oklahoma City area where Barb and Buddy are building a new home and where both of their sons and their families live. Not only would they be just a few minutes from family, the cost of assisted living and eventually nursing home care is much more affordable than southern California.
There are a couple of assisted living facilities that they are considering in OKC--with the option that they might even live in Barb and Buddy's new home at first. They put their home on the market a week ago and much depends on the speed in which it sells.
It's incredible to think that they have lived in this very home in Palm Springs for one third of their lives and a little less than half of their marriage!!
And . . . last week they celebrated their 69th wedding anniversary!! Here they are all ready to head out to The Outback for a steak dinner.
Bob and I had to delay celebrating our anniversary until I got home. We took this picture last evening after we had supper on our patio, which is just about our favourite place to dine!!
Bob is having a two-week rest from chemo and will have his last two treatments toward the end of September. Doesn't he look great in spite of his illness? We are FULL of thanks to the Lord.
This Labour Day weekend, we're flying up to Edmonton to attend Vi's step-son's wedding. Bob will actually be performing the ceremony and David, who's coming from NY, and I will provide the music!!
And at the end of next week, Barbie's flying out to visit us for a week. We are SO blessed!!
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